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Post by lovehatetragedy on Mar 14, 2006 17:34:03 GMT
Just wondering if anyone else has a bad relationship with their father? Ive just been to see my grandma and my father was there. He completely ignored me and now im angry. We have not spoken for about 18 months now. He said he didn`t want to know me because I didnt get him a fathers day card and he thought i was only after his money. I cant understand how someone can be so petty and disown his own child over something so trivial. (Him and my mum divorced about 16 years ago). Ive tried to make amends with him in the past but we just dont seem to get on. Anyone else in a similar situation? Cheers
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Post by lizziebethuk66 on Mar 14, 2006 22:21:35 GMT
no, i was really lucky, i had a great dad. But just to let u know, that is typical of how most men behave, they can be like little children and sulk. He is the one who is gonna miss out and will realise this when he needs help.. I think that you are good to have tried to make things better at least u have tried. If a card is so improtant to him and u really want to try again, then maybe send a card to him explaining how u feel. If this doesnt work, then it is down to him...
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Post by Amy on Mar 15, 2006 0:13:44 GMT
I agree with Beth ... and if he is going to sulk over something so small fo rso long, then he isnt worth it .
I dont know my real father, and me and my step dad get on sometimes but not others, but we talk , so not sure what to say to be honest...
Amy
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Post by lovehatetragedy on Mar 15, 2006 11:44:36 GMT
Thanks for your advice mates. Im going to try to forget about him. I have a very good step dad and my father isn`t worth the time i guess.
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Post by mila on Mar 27, 2006 19:22:40 GMT
I agree with the girls. It always annoys me to hear about adult people acting like spoiled 5-year-old. Makes me want to kick their butts. I mean, get a clue. it's just a freaking card, sheesh. I have a great dad, too. He's actually the only person who can possibly calm me down when I'm going histerical; now that's something he should get a prize for lol
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